War, what is it an excellent for? we need much more compassion and understanding.

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By Matilde Magrgo

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On a Seinfeld episode, around the faster seasons, Jerry convinces Elaine the Tolstoi’s early stage title for War and also Peace was “War, what is it great for?”, and she renders a silly of herself in prior of both her boss and also a influential Russian writer. The episode additionally involves one of those “antique” electrical scheduling machines, I currently forget the name of, falling on someone’s head and also an complex scheme, timeless US vs Russia thing that’s to be going on for what feels like centuries.

I think my very first protest to be for peace. I began early… ns was around 6 or 7 i think… through the Tibet liberty Independence movement. I’ve spoken about this in mine articles, but I was born in China and also was challenged with a very different truth than the one’s that are spoken about in the western media. It’s rather a shock come realize, for most civilization that go there, the it is actually an amazing ar to live. I take into consideration myself quite lucky and also privileged to have the ability to have that experience, that a childhood there. So, human being in general only protest as soon as things gain really unbearable. Ns don’t really know the track variety of which country wins protests yet in all accuracy, at this point in time, the US more than likely takes the lead… in regards to commitment we gotta offer it come folks in Hong Kong.

I tho remember when Hong Kong to be a city fairy tale, i actually invested a most vacations over there in a quasi-tropical island. I basically remember gift afraid that sharks and eating lots of banana splits. I remember the fish was really great also, and also we could rent movie in a video clip store. I perform spend a lot of time thinking around these memories, it was a different time.

I pertained to the West and somehow part magic was missing from mine reality, I had actually a real difficult time considering myself at house here, and sometimes ns still do, once I begin to question whether i’m an extraterrestrial or just really paranoid. Ns kid, that was a long time ago. Ns quit drugs in the meanwhile and also I feel human again.

So, as soon as you travel to the East, you yes, really don’t feel what i feel. It’s totally different when you were born inside the society and live the entirety passage that past colonialism into what is the civilization as we know today. And it was only twenty years ago. The shame ns feel because that being caucasian (white is an overstatement, I’m no even considered Western through the West), because that being a component of a culture that walk the dreadful things we all know, while supporting a myriad of causes that make sense to the future world, and making my component of a much better tomorrow, it’s simply something that demands to be handle with.

I spent a month away from Medium since I couldn’t take care of the totality white guilt, white shaming, generalizations and overall pessimism in general. There is a lot of good people out there who are trying to make a far better world, and also suffering a lot of needlessly, and this demands to be said. I’m not, or any of my peers are, to blame. As soon as we placed shame ~ above ourselves, we live in the embarrassment that what the future can bring. We live with the must constantly apologize for our mistakes, to are afraid a punishment so harsh that basically, us live in fear. And I don’t think it is a people I want for my children, I never want castle to feeling guilty for other people’s past mistakes, I want them to it is in the good, empathetic human being that they room in order for this world to have actually a generation that cares for each other.

That ours generation go not, it’s no really news. We began to, we began the trend of making it cool to have actually empathy… I view my parent’s generation, they were the one’s who chosen to party and their friends, loyal or not, room party friends. We uncovered the meaning of friendship, and also most of us has had actually to deal with addiction in the family members from previous generations or ourselves. However we likewise had to wake up because that the harsh realities of what was left for us to deal, and I know a lot of of people who cracked, an especially from absence of support.

One of the reasons why ns quit alcohol, albeit later on in the video game than drugs, is because I perform not great by any kind of chance that my kids inherit the insanity that plagued my household for for this reason long.

Yesterday, I had actually a really big fight v my mom, and also this time was different. Ns sincerely realized that the point we prosper most for is the ability to care for each other and also to assistance one another, also when others space in a bad mood. They can lash at us, and we can just say: ns understand. It’s not that hard, really, it’s not.

One that the worries that i have been encountering is exactly how to resolve an aging past generation, taking treatment of she and permitting myself independence and also enough resilience to take it the points I nothing like and put them in the “I’ll be zen about it” bag. In the end, what will remain is the storage of just how she come through once I really needed it and also how she helped survive the worst period of this lifetime. Ns think among the issues is this pandemic… we had actually to deal with each various other for months and also months with barely any outside communication. Talk around resilience. And also we only fought twice. Talk around progress!

The parallel here is how we room being required to face the real issues and how the should carry us much more compassion and also understanding in the direction of one another. I was able to forgive points these past couple of months that ns couldn’t even deal with some years ago. It’s quite an amazing turn the events.

I’m still recovering however, luckily, after the whole of the worries that plagued mine life, the thing happening currently is a release, a liberty from points I didn’t even realize to be there. An awakening that sorts… (good God, an additional one?!)… This is an excellent in the end, from every the awful things keep going now, and the worst of humanity coming come the forefront… ns think the ideal of the is just how community and empathy are climbing to the occasion. I really think it will certainly be feasible for humanity to come together to conserve both ourselves and also the planet and also it’s ecosystems.

There is this kind of recipe the I desire to write down:

1 big bit the empathy

1 huge bit the compassion

1 large bit of forgiveness

2 huge bits the accepting the sometimes, us all make mistakes.

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And then mix it all together, bake that cake and also save the world already!… it’s not that difficult I think.

So, in this time we have actually together in this moment while I’m here with my dogs and cats, and also you are there through your pets and also love members, lets join together and also ask ourselves: